Since I started my journey in the New Thoughts movement, I have come across a few people who claim the law of attraction doesn’t work or that it doesn’t work for them.
When I ask them why this is the case for them or investigate further, it always turns out that the law of attraction is not at fault but the individual. Saying that the law of attraction doesn’t work for you is like you saying that the law of gravity doesn’t work for you.
The law of attraction is part of the Natural Laws, which means that it will always work if applied correctly. It has a specific formula which you must adhere to for it to work for you.
So if you are trying to use the law of attraction to manifest anything and it seems as though that it’s working, I want to assure you that the formula works perfectly all the time. The only thing that can be at fault is your application of the formula.
The strangest thing about the law of attraction is that you’re using it right now in your life. The things that are currently in your life are there because you ignorantly used the law of attraction to attract them into your life.
So, if you are one of those people who insist that the law of attraction doesn’t work, then my dear reader, I want to inform you that it works and the only thing preventing it from working for you in the way you want is your ignorance about this important law.
Reasons Why The Law Of Attraction Isn’t Working For You
There are three main things you must address in order to manifest your heart desires using the law of attraction. These are:
(1) Your Thoughts
(2) Your Communication
(3) Your Conduct
These three things stated above are the components of the law of attraction formula. Just like every other formula in the world of physics or mathematics, if one component of the formula is missing or wrongly applied, the desired answer will never be attained.
If the law of attraction hasn’t worked for you so far, it’s because one of these components have not been applied correctly. Let’s consider each component of the law of attraction formula.
(1) Your Thoughts And The Law Of Attraction
“The world as we have created it is a process of our thinking. It cannot be changed without changing our thinking.”
― Albert Einstein.
Your thoughts are not some random things that come and goes as you feel like. Majority of your thoughts are being fed to you by a thought current which is in the same frequency as you.
What this means is that the majority of the thoughts that you entertain are not actually yours although these thoughts present themselves as if you originated them, the truth is the opposite.
It would have been okay to entertain random thoughts if they were completely harmless but this is not the case. Every thought you entertain for more than 90 seconds affects your reality in a good or bad way. No thought is completely neutral.
So, whenever a thought comes to your mind ask yourself this question: “Will this thought be of any benefit to me and what I desire in life?” If the answer is no, then say immediately: “I reject this thought and every power that comes with it.”
Not only does your thought affect your reality but it also creates your reality. Since this is an established fact, it becomes vitally important that you should know the link between your thoughts and the law of attraction.
Your thought and the law of attraction are the similar things presented in different ways because whatever you think about predominately, that is what you will attract.
Your thoughts affect your energy field and your energy field is your magnetic force which attracts things and people into your life.
When you send out thought into to the Universe -which is Omnipresence and Omnipotent, the Universe job is to process your thought, identify other things and people who are in the same frequency as your thought and then link you up with those things and people.
If you want to manifest anything in your life, that thing which you desire MUST be the predominant thought on your mind. This is what Apostle Paul meant when he wrote: “Pray without ceasing.” – 1 Thessalonians 5:17 KJV.
Praying without ceasing doesn’t mean you should kneel down and pray non-stop, it means you should occupy your mind non-stop with the image of your desire fulfilled.
This is the first component of the law of attraction.
(2) Your Communication And The Law Of Attraction
For by thy words thou shalt be justified, and by thy words, thou shalt be condemned.
― Matthew 12:37 KJV
In her book, The Game of Life and How to Play It, Florence Scovel Shinn wrote at length about the power of the spoken word. She went to extra length to make it clear that our words are the wand which we use to bring things into our reality.
There is great power in the spoken word. If there isn’t great power in the spoken word, affirmations would have been a total waste time.
When we make a statement, our subconscious mind is listening and if we repeat the same statement often enough, our subconscious mind will have no other option than to accept our statement as truth and then proceed to manifest it. It doesn’t matter if the statement is true, false, sarcasm or just a joke. This is the link between your communication and the law of attraction.
Your communication is the second component in the law of attraction formula. You must watch your words and guard them always. Your words must be in line with whatever you are trying to attract or manifest.
If you desire a four-bedroom house, you should be making statements such as: “My four-bedroom house has a large rear garden with a beautiful pond” or “My four bedroom house is located in a lovely quiet neighbourhood.”
Never make statements such as: “Will I ever manifest this house” or “Who am I kidding thinking I will manifest a four bedroom when I have never had anything nice in my life.” Statements such as these will only prevent you from manifesting your desires or at the very least put a distance between you and your desires.
(3) Your Conduct And The Law Of Attraction
“We are what we pretend to be, so we must be careful about what we pretend to be.”
― Kurt Vonnegut, Mother Night.
Your actions must be in line with your desires. “Fake it till you make it” is one of the best advice out there and it’s actually a law of attraction principle.
You can’t desire to be a millionaire and be acting and dressing like a beggar. It just won’t work. The quote above put it across perfectly – “We are what we pretend to be.” If you desire anything, you MUST conduct yourself as someone who’s already in possession of that particular thing.
The link between your conduct and the law of attraction is that whatever you act out, you subconsciously internalise. Once you internalise a belief, no matter how false it might be, that belief will start to manifest in your life.
So, the third component of the law of attraction formula is conduct or action. You MUST conduct yourself as one who’s already in possession of whatever he desired.
The law of attraction works. If it wasn’t working you won’t even be reading this article. You are not reading this article by accident. The invisible power which has made it possible for you to be reading this article right now instead of doing anything else is the same law of attraction.
This is because we can only come into contact with things which are on the same frequency as us.
The law of attraction is responsible for everything in your life. Your friends, enemies, success, failures, illness, finance and etc, have all come about because of the law of attraction.
You are a giant magnet that is CONSTANTLY attracting things in your reality but you can only attract the things that are in the same frequency as you.
If you have a specific thing which you would like to manifest in your life, you must apply the law of attraction formula correctly by doing the following:
(1) Ensure that the THOUGHT of the object of your desire is the predominant thought on your mind. You must see your desire fulfilled in your “mind’s eye.”
(2) COMMUNICATE about the object your desire in a positive way. You must talk about your desire as something that has already manifested.
(3) CONDUCT yourself as one who is already in possession of that thing which he desires.
If you get these three things right, you will always manifest whatever you desire.
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