Albert Einstein once said that “Reality [Life] is merely an illusion, albeit a very persistent one.” If you understand this simple quote in its entirety, then you will begin to move mountains in your life. Every problem in your life right now is an illusion, although a very persistent one at that.
I don’t know what you are currently going through, it might be that you have been severally injured, or you are currently without any work or your friends and family have deserted you or maybe you have just been diagnosed with an incurable disease, no matter what your problem is right now, I want to assure you that the problem is an illusion preventing you from your happiness.
No matter what your current situation is, the future can be brighter and better if you follow the instructions given in this article. Everyone has one problem or the other. No one on this earth is without one form of problem or the other. So, you should have it at the back of your mind that, there will always be a problem in your life as far as you exist in this reality. The only important thing is that you become good at dealing with these problems.
If problems are part and parcels of life, what’s the best way of dealing with them?
How To Deal With Life Problems
The first thing you must know is that the problems in your life are there for a reason. They are effects and their cause is your inner world, your mind. And it is in the inner world where we must go to, to find the solution. Whatever is going on in your mind controls all your actions.
We can only arrive at a solution by asking “why?” Why did that particular problem manifested in our life? What can we learn from that problem? The answers to these questions will lead us to the solution for the problem
Why Is That Problem In Your Life?: Whatever problem you are currently experiencing, the number one thing you must do is to find out why that problem manifested in your life. Was it because of your negative thoughts? Was it because you have been exposing yourself to wrong or harmful images or did the problem manifested in your life because of some wrong deeds you did months or years ago? Knowing why that problem manifested in your life is your number goal.
Lesson Learnt: Every problem in your life is there to teach you a lesson. The lesson could about you disciplining your thoughts, removing fear from your mind, not being judgemental or it could be anything else but what is certain is that the problem in your life right now is there to teach you something.
Solution To The Problem: Every problem has a solution, some solutions are easy and painless while some are extremely painful but all problem has a solution. So whatever you are currently going through, there is a solution for it, you just have to find out what the solution is.
To solve any life problem, all you have to do is find out the solution and then focus all your effort in attaining that solution. Don’t waste any of your energy focusing on the problem, that would only make it bigger. Focus on the solution and put all your might into attaining that solution.
From Solution To Success
Now that you know how to deal with every life problem, you are now well equipped to transit into all-around success. If you know how to deal with whatever type of obstacle you are currently experiencing, then you can remove the “roadblocks” in your life.
One of life major roadblocks is our limiting beliefs. You might discover through your self-diagnosis, that your beliefs are responsible for all your woes. This is usually the case for the majority. Whatever you discovered through your self-diagnosis, treat them with the three steps stated in the previous section.
From this point, I am presuming that you are starting from a blank slate. I am assuming you want to make a fresh assault on those things which you desire. If the answer is yes, then I am happy to inform you that there are no limits to what you can achieve on your journey through life.
It doesn’t matter if you are broke, uneducated and without any connection. What matters is that you believe that whatever you desire is attainable. Your success and failures are based on your mind. What you accept as possible becomes possible to you and what you accept as impossible becomes impossible for you. You are in charge of your reality.
The man who thinks he can and the man who thinks he can’t are both right. Which one are you?
— Henry Ford.
No one is in charge of your life experience in this reality except you. You call the shots. You are in charge of your life, whether you accept it or not doesn’t change this fact but it’s until you accept this responsibility that you will begin to experience the life of bliss you desire. Let me remind you that everything is attainable. The houses, cars, friends, good health and etc, are all attainable. “All things are possible to him who believes.” Mark 9:23.
Saying all these, I will like to remind you again that your life won’t change until you accept two fundamental facts and these are (1) You are in charge of your own life experiences and (2) All things are possible to you ONLY if you believe that they are possible.
I don’t care what your excuse might be right now, everyone has their own excuse, the successful ones just know how to deal with their excuses better. There is a man right now who is without arms and legs yet he’s busy making his dreams a reality. He could only do that because he realized he was bigger than his excuses.
In recap, (1) know that life problems are part of life, so no one is immune to them. (2) Have a desire to change your life for the better and (3) believe in yourself and that you can attain your desire. (4) Don’t just believe, make a definite decision to achieve your dreams.
You can become whatever you want to become. You can have that house, car, wife, husband, children, friends and etc, you only need to believe in the possibility that you can attain them and decide that you will attain them. No one is stopping you from achieving your dreams. You are in charge of your life. Take charge of your life and achieve your dreams.
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